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“Rotations give you the opportunity to not close doors on people who may be great for you.People who get involved too quickly shut out others because they don’t rotate dates.
“I could only juggle three people at a time for one-month spans before it got out of hand — someone would freak out or want commitment,” she says.
“I dated someone for nine months that came out of a rotation.
And, since I don't have a top-notch memory, it also requires keeping a handy list in my phone.
The logic behind multi-dating isn’t rooted so much in the need to distract oneself with a bunch of dudes following a breakup (although it totally can be) as it is in what men have long called "playing the field.” And, it's certainly not a new concept.
"Now with dating more than one guy, I have been able to look at what each of them would add to my life and not feel pressured about one person.
Don't struggle with the juggle—we've rounded up a few ladies who have been there and done that to tell you exactly how to handle the tricky situations that come with playing the field."I was previously married for about six years and didn't really take the time to consider what I wanted out of a relationship or marriage," says Megan, 27.
“Dating is always fun, but eventually it gets old when you don't take anyone seriously, or no one is taking you seriously,” Elle says.
“You start to see that in the end you really are still alone.”I recently felt the pang of loneliness as I sat post-coital on the edge of my bed with “The Best” and told him that I’ve realized maybe having sex with someone who wouldn’t come visit me in the hospital (where I was briefly on New Year’s Eve day for some lady problems, fun!
“I feel like I would stop immediately if I met someone I really liked.” Gretchen, a former multi-dater who is now in a committed, long-term relationship, says: “Having a rotation worked for me, and I had fun.
It got kind of difficult with all of the drama, though.”Cassie*, a 30-year-old designer living in Brooklyn, got out of her rotation only after one date asked her to be monogamous with him. “But, he always brought me on amazing experiences, and it’s hard not to fall for someone when each experience is so fun.”For some women, having a rotation with the hopes of ultimately meeting a long-term partner can also be unfulfilling.
During my multiple nights of dinners, drinks, and flirting, I've been honest about that last serious relationship and that I’m currently “not looking for anything serious.” I always assumed this implied, “I’m seeing other people, you got that?Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating